Kath's Story

#ItCanHappenToAnyone

“We were told it was a simple, gold-standard fix with minimal risk. But for many, it led to life-changing and often irreversible complications.”

Kath was 47 when her life changed in ways she never imagined. Before surgery she was active, independent, and full of energy. She trusted the system meant to protect her. She trusted the reassurance she was given. But when things went wrong, the systems that should have kept her safe did not catch her. They did not listen. And they did not act.

The complications Kath faced were not isolated or unpredictable. They were part of a wider, systemic pattern — gaps in regulation, poor oversight, limited long-term monitoring of medical devices, and a lack of honest, comprehensive consent processes for patients. Mesh was promoted as routine; as risk-free; as 'gold standard'. But for thousands, the reality was far from that.

When Kath reported her pain and symptoms, she was dismissed by her implanting surgeon, told it would settle, and left to work out the truth alone. That moment — familiar to so many people harmed by unsafe care — is what turned her pain into purpose.

In 2015 she founded Sling the Mesh, a grassroots movement now supporting more than 12,000 people worldwide. The community she built shines a light on medical harm linked to pelvic mesh and other surgical mesh used in prolapse, bladder leaks, hernias, and cancer reconstruction. Behind every statistic are people living with nerve damage, infections, autoimmune conditions, and relentless pain. Some cannot walk. Many feel unheard. All deserved better.

Kath's campaigning exposes system failures that allow unsafe practices to continue. Her message to those in charge of care is clear: ensure patient safety is prioritised over profit.

Her advice to others reflects the courage of someone who has lived through harm and refuses to let others carry the same burden: research fully, seek real patient stories, and know your rights before agreeing to any procedure.

At AvMA, we see every day how system failures ripple into people’s lives – altering futures, relationships, and families. And we know how vital it is to have somewhere to turn when care falls short.

This Christmas, your monthly gift can help ensure no one faces medical harm alone. For as little as £7 a month, you can help fund AvMA’s helpline, giving families clear information, expert advice and compassionate support as they navigate inquests, complaints and the long emotional aftermath of avoidable harm.

Together, we can build a system where people are listened to the first time, where concerns spark action, and where safety is never treated as optional.

Every story matters. Every voice deserves to be heard.

This Christmas, AvMA is shining a light on the people and families behind avoidable medical harm. Their words are not about blame — they are about truth, humanity, and learning so that healthcare becomes safer for everyone.
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